Can other people help me?

Being divergent...

is not following what someone expects from you
Is not following what you expect from yourself

It is following your heart

Divergent, a movie about growing up in a system (like we all did, actually)...

Beatrice Prior has to make a choice and thinks she makes the right choice.
Than she finds out she ended up in another system
She finds her soulmate who truly wants to help her

What sets her apart, will set the world free

For more:

https://soul2soul.jouwweb.nl/living-from-your-heart/movies-with-a-message

We honor the people
who did everything they were able to
to help others who need help
to become who they are
and to live their lifes from within

This helping people
live from their hearts
and you can meet them everywhere
Maybe one or both of your parents
maybe a teacher
a child in your class
a collegue at your work...

Some of you can feel it already
which people are living that way
living and helping from within
Others need some time of healing
but we promise you
that there will be some day
you start to feel this "heart-people"
You will feel it
by really connecting with them

And by just being with you
maybe talking with you
or doing something for you
you will know
they are able to live from within
And that, so special,
will give you even more innerhealing!

I honor my husband
who did everything from within for me
for me
a very broken woman
He did everything
he heard and felt in his soul to heal me
whatever the cost...
The difference between
only a few years ago and now
is so extreme
I even cannot describe

I still need some more healing 
but that's just a matter of time
I feel almost totally new
free and alive!

Let this be an encouragement for you
in your time of emotional healing
You will get healed
and you will find "heart-people"
that will help you in some way or another

And... there will come a day
that you will know you have become
and maybe you already are
such a person that lives from your heart
that someway feels deep inside
what you can do for someone else...

Don't wrestle to become that person
just go through your own pain
learn to listen and feel your heart
your day will come and you will enjoy it!

Imagine...
you are stuck
broken
helpless

But then...
there is somebody
a stranger
who does everything he is able to
to save you

Why does he do this?
It has all to do with soul-connection

This song is about someone
saved by a stranger
who turns out to be her soulmate

Follow your soul
follow your heart
Be the person at the right place
at the right time

Once you find your soulmate
who can be stuck in a situation

Help!
Save!
Heal!

You can do it
from your heart
from your soul

A roadmap is absolutely not healing!

How to conquer fear for spiders?

I saw an article on the internet,
about a roadmap to conquer your fear for spiders

THERE IS NO ROADMAP to conquer fear
Fear is caused by emotional wounds, by convictions
And that has to be healed
From the inside out

You don't have to do anything
to conquer fear
Just go through the difficult periods
You will find out, some day,
there is no real fear anymore

I myself was afraid of spiders
And one day, seeing a spider eye to eye
I realized I was able to grab him in my hand
and bring him to the garden
O yes, I felt something
but it was not fear
I was just a little excited
excited because I could do it

I have no fear for spiders anymore
They are only beautiful to me!

Again I tell you: A roadmap is absolutely not healing!

How can you handle sexual abuse?

Just saw a video about how to do this...
A roadmap again
No way, you don't need a roadmap
You need to heal, from the inside out

How does that work?
Your soul itself will work that out
You don't have to do anything
You will go through heavy stuff
And it takes time to trust your soul (and your body)
that it's okay
you are healing

One day you will realize
that thoughts about the abuse
will come to mind
but fly away almost immediately!
That's the day you will know
you are almost healed from this!

By the way...
Sometimes after that special day
there can be a bad day again
that's not a relapse
that is a deeper piece of healing
Really, you will be all right!
Just by doing nothing
except to go through it...

For the third time I tell you: A roadmap is absolutely not healing!

But... a therapist who is able to listen to his or her innervoice
a therapist who can feel what you need
such a therapist can help your soul to heal!

"Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh.
"Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet.
"No," said Pooh. "No, I don't think I want to."
"That's okay," said Piglet,
and he sat down next to Pooh.
And Pooh just sat there,
trusting Piglet to sit silently beside him.

Sometimes... words are too much!

Tell me...
how can I make you see
just how beautiful
and how strong you are

That even when things get tough
and you power through
you inspire me

Let me show you just
how special you really are
I want you to see what I see
The strength in your soul
The tenderness of your heart

Souls, jumping to this world from other dimensions
to heal this world...

Are you one of them?
One of them who jumped to this earth ?
To help? To heal? 

A soulmate
will see this
will hear this
will feel this
will recognize this as a cry for help

A soulmate 
will do everything he can
to help her in her healingprocess

And of course
this also applies to
a woman to a man

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